Serious question : do I have intimacy issues?

I've been a member of Y!A for about 2 years. I don't add contacts, and I'm extremely picky about who I allow to add me (to the point where I have criteria established, in my head, for who can and can't). I feel the same about my 360 and MySpace. I live alone, other than my dog whom I love terribly, and am quite content with that. I am an admitted misanthrope. I keep my "real life" separate from my "internet life" in a fierce fashion. I don't have a problem meeting new people, but I'm extremely guarded about who I allow into my world, and to what degree. I've been described by others as "stand-offish" and "unapproachable", among other choice adjectives. I like to control who I let into my life, and tend to keep most people at arm's length, at the very least, but I'm honestly not a horrible person. In fact, this is the most I've ever revealed about myself online, as I just don't see the need to cross my real life with the internet. Constructive feedback is welcome.

Serious question : do I have intimacy issues?

Not at all, you're as sane as sane can be.

Your problem may lie in the fact that we are typically attracked unto our opposite personality type, when we consider marriage. This is natural and beneficial, because our mates struggle to help us seek a resemblence of balance in our lives. How one will come to view this daily struggle may, in fact, appear the problem in marriage versus the solution.

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Serious question : do I have intimacy issues?

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