Ok this sucks...i want to tell her how i feel...?

i know this girl and we have been friends since 7th grade.i have liked her ever since i met her.

i recently noticed that i like her a lot.she got this new boyfriend and im really jealous.we always get in arguments now about nothing.

before we never argued about anything.

when i see them hanging out i feel awful.

when she talks about him i feel terrible.

i know she cares about me because she was gunna break up with him at one point bcuz she knew that them together made me sad. i told her not to cuz i know she likes him. one day on myspace i was reading a survey she did and the question was "who did u lose ur virginity to?"

she wrote "a very special boy".the week prior she told me she hadnt gone farther than kissing him. i was crushed and i askd her why she ddnt tell me. she said "im too immature"

im 16. last friday we got into another argument. she got mad cuz i said her boyfriend's friends were weak people cuz all they do is smoke.she ended the convo with "what if i marry him?

Ok this sucks...i want to tell her how i feel...?

two things:

1. I've been in a similar position before, and it does help if you tell her how you really feel. I know it's scary as hell but just do it because then it's out there, and if she likes you more, she'll leave him (she already said she was going to do it once).

2. Don't let her play games, I fell into that problem and it sucks. Tell her how you feel, etc. etc. but if she still is going out with this other guy a week later...move on! Even if it's just pretend, move on and act as if you have no interest in her anymore, sometimes that works and makes them think and freak out. It's a cheap move...but it does work sometimes.

If she still doesn't budge after that...just move on dude. I know it sucks but meet new people.

Ok this sucks...i want to tell her how i feel...?

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