I was cheated on... now what?

No i wasn't told, I hacked into facebook and saw messages of how they hooked up and how good it was. At the same time he's telling me he's changing and how much he loves me! the same time he's telling her how hot she is and how badly he wants her. This is almost a 3 year relationship. He deleted his myspace and facebook and is saying he will be completely devoted to me. What the F*** do i do??? I' m so upset b/c i found out and he didn't tell me!!!! If i hadn't hacked in i would have never known. I knew something was wrong though so I had reason. After that i'm so lost. I built my life around him.... he said he got lonely with long distance and only cheated 3 times with the same person! wtf i don't want STDs. Now he's home w/o anyone. I love him... he was my soul mate.. but how can he do this? after i gave him everything... i love him still... a small part of me wants to go back to him and believe his words.. but it's so hard after so much pain.. what do i do?

I was cheated on... now what?

No matter what you will never be able to completely trust him because of what he has done in the past. Even if he says he will change and even puts forth some effort to change; people can't be changed. They will eventually go back to their old ways. I think you should dump him and make him realize what he lost and then find someone later on who can treat you better.

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I was cheated on... now what?

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