I like this guy but i don't know if he's gay or not, help!?
Some guys are extremely hurt by being tagged as gay, just because of dress or particular mannerisms. One of my professors in college called me a slur behind my back, and I haven't been able to forget it since. If you ask him, that just reinforces the power of the rumor. Think about how he'd feel: "Um, I know you already told me this, but since you wear pink and like to shop and all, and because of this rumor that's going around, before I ask you out on a date or flirt with you, I just want to make sure--you're not gay, are you?"
Regardless of whether you ask it in a more diplomatic way, that's what he's going to hear. So I'd say just start flirting, or ask him to do something, or make a pass at him after you've had some alcohol. If he rejects you, then either (a) he's gay, or (b) he's rejecting you. And if it's (b), you can blame it on (a), and you don't have to worry about it!
I like this guy but i don't know if he's gay or not, help!?Tell him you like him and you need to know if he is gay. What's the problem, just talk to him. It's not like being gay is all that strange, is it?
I like this guy but i don't know if he's gay or not, help!?There are some people who recognise that there are very definite walls in people's minds separating their rigid definitions and preconceptions. If someone stands on one of these walls everybody gets confused and starts speculating.
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