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me and this guy met on a cruise. we had sex twice, and acted like bf and gf. after the cruise he contacted me right away on myspace.

we didnt talk constantly..but after awhile he wasnt contacting me and i got nervous. i wrote him a message on myspace basically

saying that if he doesnt write back, he doesnt want any part of me..and he wrote back. i surprised visited him a few months after

the cruise, and he was really happy. he kissed me on the lips goodbye, we were only there for about 20 minutes. it was weird bc

i already decided i was going to college near where he lives in a year before the cruise. between the cruise and college we saw

eachother twice, once the surprise visit, and the other time we hung out and talked the entire time..NO SEX. we had a convo

about whether or not he was using me on the cruise or not. he said no he didnt and that he liked me. after that visit, he texted

me right after saying "thanks for coming..cant wait to see you again"..i told him i was glad that we got to talk and he said "i would

never use you" later on i said i was going to bed and i told him to have fun and he said "all my fun left at 12"...which is when i

left. two days later he texts me and were talking about him coming to ny to visit me and we could go to the city..and he said

"way rather see you then the city"..we didnt always talk constantly, but every now and then we did..so basically we were

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