Is she being creepy or am I paranoid?

Over the past year of my relationship I've been having trouble with my boyfriend's ex, who periodically contacts him. I guess my bad feelings toward her began at the very beginning our relationship. She contacted him wanting to get back together (previously they hadn't spoken for over a year)- he said no, that he was in a relationship with me. Her response to him was, "I can't say that I'm happy for you."

2 months later, my boyfriend and I just moved in together, and she found him on myspace - he denied her friend request, but I later found out they were friends on his other (band) profile - I felt like they were sneaking around - when I confronted him he deleted her. Well, she still contacts him periodically. While he says she's friendly, he also says she asks personal questions, like if I'm the type he'd marry and she asks if we ever have relationship problems. She's now apparently engaged, but still contacts him. This has caused many fights. Is she weird or am I?

Is she being creepy or am I paranoid?

She is definitely a little 'off' but you need to support your boyfriend's efforts to be honest and 'make light' of her obsessiveness. Pity her finance out loud. If your boyfriend leaps to her defense that will tell you much about HIS priorities and make your response to him a decisive moment. Make sure he is not using her weirdness to make you jealous and then just blow it off. You have him, she doesn't.

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Is she being creepy or am I paranoid?

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